He'll always hate to see us cry

Yes all, I do realize a lot of my post are about guys/men in someway. You're probably thinking how a blog can all of a sudden turn into "Cosmo's Advice" column. But figuring men out isn't easy and there sure as hell is no guide on how to understand the complicated situations they present.

Under all of the complex things women do and put guys through, all we really want at the end of the day is somebody who genuinely cares about us. Somebody who compliments us cause they want to and because they mean it. Somebody who'd watch our favorite movies with us though they've seen it a million times. We want somebody to tell us it's gonna be alright when things start looking bad. Most importantly we want somebody who is going to stand by us not only when we're up on top, but somebody who is going to remain there with us once we've hit rock bottom; after all everybody needs somebody to pull them back up. From the looks of it, especially in today's society, the only man who will ever be there for a woman is her father.

It's always hard for a dad to watch his baby girl grow up, but nevertheless he always supports her through the triumphs and tells her to keep trying when she fails. He's the one who taught us how to ride a bike and tie our shoes; he's also the one who picked our bikes back up and encouraged us to get back on after we fell off. When we are feeling sick, he doesn't try and stay away to keep himself germ free, rather he brings us soup and hot cocoa and brings us a puke bucket. He proceeds by sitting by us asking if there is anything he can do to make us feel better..that's just what dad's do. Does it take having a child for a man to turn into a caring human being?

I know that I cannot be the only one who gets into arguments and disagreements with my father, and sometimes we say things that we don't mean. Sometimes we both just need to be mad for a while, but you bet your ass before I go to bed we make nice and he makes sure everything is okay. Our dads HATE to see us cry, but the guys women are with usually appear to care less; should we continue searching when we already have all the love we could ever need from our fathers?

Everybody wants to feel important and loved. It is, in its simplest form, one of man kinds primary needs after the bare necessities. So we spend our lives dedicated to finding "the one" instead of focusing on what really makes us happy; family and friends. Sometimes instead of worrying about what you are doing wrong, we need to focus on what we did right, what we did right to keep the people we already have in our lives there so long. And one thing I know for sure is that a loving father is there forever and always.