If You Like Me Then Say You Like Me

He says cute things and is all into you when it is just you two, but when he is surrounded by his friends he can barely say hi. Why do guys act so differently around their friends? Despite what they may think, us women don't find it cute or funny, we don't think it means you have game or "swagger". Honestly, if you like me just say you like me, and don't stop there; if your going to "like" somebody then show it too.

Some girls are very needy and clingy. They want their guy to be holding their hand constantly, or they want to sit on their lap at a party. Nope, not me. I just would want them to simply talk to me, smile at me, tell his friends "hey this is my girl". If he is too cool to pay me attention around his friends, then I am too cool to be waiting around for him to be a man.

This problem, I assume, goes back centuries, and if not centuries it at least back to when i started 3rd grade. We're good enough to read "Goosebumps" with, but when it came to playing "lightning" with you at recess we might as well have been invisible cause we're never getting a turn. As I have grown up I have only seen this problem become more apparent and on a larger level.

Don't get me wrong, not ALL guys are like this. I have seen guys who want everybody to know "this is my girlfriend" and he'll proceed by introducing her to all his friends and making her comfortable at the party or wherever it may be. But that is a rare exception. Because most guys today seem afraid..afraid of what; judgement, being "whipped"..? Here's a pointer guys, paying your girls attention doesn't mean you're whipped, unmanly or ditching your friends. It simply means that if you really do like her, that you care enough about her to let to her know, your friends know, and to let other girls who may be lurking to get the point (you're taken).

It doesn't take that much effort, in fact it probably takes more effort to change how you act just because your friends are around. Next time around, save us from wasting any of our time with your games. If you like us then say you like us and prove it, if not, then on to our next attempt to find our whoever, whoever they may be.